[drewlong19]

The organization I am interested in hosted a secret interest meeting which I was not invited to. I was wondering if you guys could touch on. I am a senior at my university and always wanted to pledge Alpha phi Alpha. I was preparing myself mentally over summer for it and everything just looking forward to it. Nobody on campus knew that I wanted to pledge bc I kept it well discreet.

School starts and I am keeping my eye out for flyers regarding the interest meeting. A few days go by and I hear from a friend that they ALREADY had an interest meeting but I didnt see one flyer up anywhere and believe me I was looking hard! Does this mean they only invited certain people to the interest meeting and did not want the campus to know about it?

After missing the interest meeting I contacted some of the bros I'm cool with to see if theres anything I could do but they never respond to my questions. By them ignoring me I guess that means they dont want me?

I just dont know what to do because I have a 3+GPA, involved around campus, and definitely have a positive reputation for being a cool dude on campus so this just hurts. I know I would of stood out at the interest meeting if I knew about it and was able to attend.

Should I continue to try to contact the members of the organization or just take it as if they do not want me? I do not want to come off as annoying or like a peasant by asking them if its too late to get on line or what.

This all happened within 5 days so I know it cant be too late to get on that line right? Really don't think this is fair because I know I would of stood out at the interest meeting if given that opportunity. Please give me some insight on what I should do from here.