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Originally Posted by sigmadiva
But, there is one aspect I think you should consider: maybe they want you because you are the change they want to see in their chapter. Since you feel no connection to the chapter, which I believe, maybe they want you so that in future recruitments you can be the one to attract more members like you. Essentially, you are the change they want to be. They have to start somewhere, and they are starting with you.
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What sigmadiva mentioned might be the case. My roommate during freshman year did formal recruitment and each day we would go back to the dorm together and talk about the different groups and our feelings. During the two rounds where the chapters invited you back (sisterhood day and pref day) she kept getting invited back to group XYZ and couldn't figure out why. She told me that she felt like she was the polar opposite from a lot of the sisters (looks, personality, priorities, everything!). Well, anyways, they ended up offering her a bid and she figured that she would give them a try and accepted it. I know that she was much happier once she got to bond with her pledge class and met more of the sisters. She ended up moving into the house for the spring semester so it couldn't have been too bad! It turns out that the sorority was looking to become more diverse and she was one of the first steps in that.
It doesn't hurt you to meet more of the girls if they invite you back. They haven't offered you a bid yet.