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Old 09-03-2012, 02:03 AM
DubaiSis DubaiSis is offline
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A BIG part of college, like it or not is heavy duty drinking, probable drug use (hopefully mild and limited), and sexual exploration. She's seeing it more in the house than on her dorm floor because she's spending more time with her sorority sisters. But I can assure you that there is no corner of Bama, or any other school (besides maybe Liberty and Bob Jones) that aren't dealing with all of this.

This is the time for her to learn how to deal with people who are different from her, and who make bad decisions, and where it is none of her business. If she gets harassed or bullied about participating in dangerous or unladylike behavior, then she needs to do something about it. Otherwise, she should focus on finding her right fit within the sorority. This isn't a chapter of 50 girls. It's not even a pledge class of 50. She can find girls who don't want to drink or whatever else she's finding offensive. But suggest she keep it to herself or she will risk alienating herself from girls who are less judgy.
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