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I don't know, this post (from the mother AND the daughter's perspective) sounds really really judgy.
Some young women can juggle being social, drinking a lot, and even (gasp!) being sexually active (and at this point, does the OP's daughter even know who's making out with randos and who's making out with her longtime boyfriend?) and being a rockstar in the classroom. Their suitability for being in a sorority doesn't hinge on that. Maybe the OP's daughter is super sheltered and has really antiquated ideas about how a young woman in a sorority should behave.
If things with certain young women become a problem, TRUST that Standards will be on it. All your daughter should be focusing on is making friends and getting that stick out of her ass. It may turn out that the girls who turned her off the most in the beginning become her best friends.
Keeping an open mind doesn't end when Recruitment does.
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