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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
Let me just tell you you're shooting yourself in the foot going into rush with decisions already made.
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This this this! I cannot stress enough the importance of having an OPEN MIND! Be open to ALL possibilities! I knew of a young woman who went went through recruitment last year at a nearby college and was dead-set on joining Theta Phi Alpha. She ended up being cut from that chapter and considered dropping altogether, but I was able to convince her to stick with the process as she still had invites to other wonderful groups. She (reluctantly) accepted a bid to one of her remaining choices, and you know what? Now she couldn't be happier with her decision! While its natural to have favorites, you have to trust the process to place you where you truly belong.