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Although the result is as most of us had expected, I'm sorry that this didn't turn out as you and we had hoped. Coincidentally, there is a current thread about the age range of sorority members, and it tops out at about 22 years old -- for the seniors, not the pledges. I have no doubt that the chapters think you are a really great person/lady, but the dynamic of a bunch of 18-year old pledges and one 25+ year old pledge is just off. So often you read on here about whether a chapter thinks a PNM will be a good "fit" with the rest of the chapter. That includes whether she will fit with the other pledges, as well as with the older chapter members.
Congratulations on giving it a great shot, against high odds. Finish crying it out, shake it off, and move on to find a group of like-minded people with whom you WILL be a good fit. They are out there, waiting for you.
(Waiting for someone to post, "There's always AI.")
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