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Originally Posted by 33girl
If you know the woman from class or elsewhere, just treat it as two friends going to dinner.
If you don't know her and she just seemingly randomly contacted you, most likely, someone from the chapter (it could be a recent alumna, as in someone who graduated last year) knows you and knows her and thinks you would get along well. Again, just treat it as two friends going to dinner.
This is how deferred rush is SUPPOSED to work!  Make a friend first, and THEN worry about rushing her.
(ForeverRoses - I got the impression this was at a campus restaurant or snack bar - not the sorority house.) |
Yes, on campus!
OHMYGOODNESS! Now that I think about it...I met a sorority woman from another school earlier this year who told me her cousin is a member of the sorority of the woman who contacted me...I never knew word traveled so quickly!
All I did was mention that I planned on going through recruitment, but I certainly didn't expect it to travel this far haha. I definitely appreciate her taking the time to do so though.