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Originally Posted by Low C Sharp
If a new member's roommate was cut, her new sisters can surprise her with chair decorations at a chapter meeting or something.
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That's really not equivalent to having your bed/door decorated. My roommate (whom I had never met prior to move-in) was released from rush and so I had door decorations and she didn't. She was out of the dorm for bid-day so she didn't have to be there when it happened. What should a new member do - not put up sorority decorations all year so she doesn't hurt her roommate's feelings? Please. At some point everyone has to grow up and move on with their own lives.
Yes, it stinks that there are women released from recruitment - and yes, that is terribly painful and confusing for them. But treating everyone who doesn't get what they want in life like special, fragile, snowflakes isn't the answer.