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Some things are not so formulaic. Some months it will be 50/50, some months it will be 10/90, and so forth. When you and your friends (women and men) have something to talk about and a reason to hang out, do so as long as it does not require ignoring Brandi. There will be times you ignore your friends for Brandi because you want to spend more time with Brandi. Adults can handle that.
I also encourage you to have mutual friends including but not limited to couples. That also includes people who are really your friends but they love being around Brandi; and people who are really Brandi's friends but they love being around you. You can all hang out together as long as people do not get tired of "couples outings." That will require that you not bring your drama to the outings--no couples fights.
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