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Question: Do you want to be Greek? Because this is your chance. Change your attitude and get to like a few things about these women who took a chance on and saw something in you. Come around to the events, put a smile on your face, and make some friends. If you can't find a way to fit in with this group, you probably won't fit in with any group. I'm pretty sure they aren't cookie cutter evil and terrible people, but rather they are diverse and representative of most sororities on your campus.

And your feeling uncomfortable in your own skin is called, "I don't like that I was rejected from my top choices." Get over it. If you can't, drop out and try again knowing that you may not get a bid ANYWHERE next time.

If you want to experience sorority life, this is your chance. You have a month or so before initation, after which point you won't be eligible to join another sorority ever, so at least give it that chance.

Exception: you drop out right now and obsessively hang out with the sorority you want to be bidded to because your BFF is there, and, miraculously, the chapter offers you a bid next recruitment. This is not the norm, and almost never, ever happens.