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Old 08-19-2012, 04:16 PM
HopefulPNM HopefulPNM is offline
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After dropping from a house, is it impossible to get a bid the next year?

On bid day, I was given a bid from my absolute last choice. It wasn't that there was a problem with the girls, they were very sweet, it was just that I felt very uncomfortable around them and that I didn't belong there. My Rho Gamma convinced me to "run home", and said that if I still didn't feel comfortable after doing so, I have the option of dropping out of the sorority.

My question is, if I do decide to drop out, would I even have a chance during next year's recruitment, or would the fact that I dropped a house put up a red flag in all the other sorority's next year?
I know that recruitment is generally harder for sophomores overall, but if I get involved on campus and maintain a very good gpa, would that help my case?

Basically, would the fact that I dropped a house due to feeling that I didn't belong there completely kill my chances, even if I had a very good resume next year?
Going Greek is very important to me, but it's not worth it to feel uncomfortable in my own skin whenever I meet up with my sisters.
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