Her daughter experienced very heavy cuts and was floored by it. As an objective observer, I didn't read her posts as saying "My daughter hates these women" just that she didn't feel "right" and couldn't say why. After experiencing heavy cuts and the resulting blow to the ego, it is difficult for a young woman to then get excited and love anybody, that day. The mom clearly indicated that she liked one of the chapters a lot more after pref. WE always tell young women to try to keep a positive attitude and give chapters a chance in spite of disappointments. We tell them to treat it as though those left are the only ones left on campus. This young lady clearly did that. I would not be offended if she ended up in an Alpha Gam chapter after all that.
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