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slight swerve,
MY NPC group no longer allows us to have Pledge Mom/Pledge Daughters (I was initiated in the early 80's) so the 'baby' phenomenon must be killing them!
To the OP -
You will need to bring up your concerns regarding the pnm through your regular MS channels. Voting and selection processes allow for dissension. Prior to recruitment, you could ask the member who love, love loves this pnm about recruitment last year and maybe she can shed some light on the situation, confidentially. However if the enamored member is your age and was not involved in rush last year, then you might need to look for that info elsewhere.
Tread carefully. You have not gone through rush on the 'inside'. It can be just as emotional and stressful as regular recruitment. Respecting your sisters is a very important part of the process.
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