This must be a campus culture thing. At my school it would not be weird to talk about costs and members of my chapter are prepared to answer these types of questions. The Rho Chis are also supposed to cover finances in pre-recruitment meetings with PNMs.
If a girl asked me about finances during recruitment, I think that would be a sign of responsibility and that she was taking the decision to join Greek life seriously. I would rather have that happen than have no one ask questions and then depledge/resign membership later for financial reasons.
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