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Originally Posted by agzg
I agree.  |
I'm not really a baby shower, wedding, (insert other formality) person. If these events must occur, and I am a mere attendee, they need to occur with as little of my time and effort as possible.
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Originally Posted by WCsweet<3
My boyfriend and I had a very similar situation. The groom loved scotch. We got him a very nice bottle of it and ignored the fact that the bride does not like alcohol.
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If the purpose was to make him happy, COOL but you know that could spark a couple's argument.
If the purpose was to piss her off, UNCOOL and you all put forth more mental effort than necessary.
At the end of the day, the couple is responsible for their quirks and arguments. But, I firmly believe that all outsiders (including family members) need to remain outsiders. Sometimes that means not attending an event or playing the backseat if necessary. Choose whatever you (in general) choose and be done with it.