Do a search on here and you will find some really good threads that discuss how/where to get recs, tips for ways to ask and ways to thank the ladies afterwards. They will be very helpful.( look at the bottom of this page for a list of some threads similar to this one)
We get a ton of pnms who come on here asking the same questions without first doing any searches to see if their question has already been asked and answered. Those same pnms usually tell us they know NO ONE who was in a sorority. The threads on recs address all of those obstacles.
Best of luck to you!
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