[tcsparky]

My is definitely the back door variety. He says that he knows what he should do but he is simply too weak to go through with it. He has been telling me since about a week into this relationship that he is really not into it. But at the time the ex wasnt ready to get together with him; now she is saying that if he is free she will be with him. Yes I think you're right he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. Even said to me that if things don't work out with ex he cn always come back to this one!

How frequently asked me why he and I don't date since we're such good friends and get along so well. This is why. I would not put up with this crap. I think he stay friends with me because I am the only female that call him on stuff and doesn't let him get away with stuff. I call him on it every time, but will be there for him when he makes a mess of it all.