Hazarding a guess, if the sorority member is a sophomore and just going through rush from the other side for the first time, she may not be fully aware that she screwed up. We know how tricky the rules are (I (underline, bold) would love for you to be my sister and I could be your big, etc) is not technically an infraction, as I understand it. We (underline bold) want you to be our sister and have already determined who your big would be... BIG ole infraction.
I probably wouldn't make a big deal out of it, but I wouldn't be counting any chickens either. I guess I'd err on the side of young girl makes a stupid mistake instead of vicious girl intentionally commits heinous rush infraction. Now if the member is anything beyond a first year rusher, all of the above is moot.
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