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Originally Posted by futurerusheee
First of all I realized my username isn't PC, I apologize haha 
But so basically this is the situation:
I'll be starting a big, competitive school and rushing this month (scary) and I have a few friends going through recruitment simultaneously. Recently one of them told me that a sorority girl be both know basically promised her a bid, talked about how she'd be her future little, and had her take pictures doing that group's handsign. (She showed me evidence of all of the above  ) They weren't friends until the last few weeks and it all feels very icky.
I just don't know what to think of this. Is it unfair to weigh that into my opinion of the chapter? I know to keep an open mind, but who knows how prevalent it is or isn't, and why members would do it...Any thoughts? It's not really my business but then again it seems disrespectful to the org. |
If the other PNM were my friend, I would tell her that she should go through recruitment and meet everyone before making up her mind. I would also tell her that one member can't guarantee a bid for anyone, no matter how much she likes the PNM. A bid is given by the whole chapter and it's the whole chapter's decision. Don't count on getting a bid just because one sister "promised" you one. She needs to keep an open mind and make the choices that will maximize her chances of getting a bid