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Originally Posted by ree-Xi
You shouldn't need to even ask this question, because it's common sense.
OF COURSE you can enjoy your sorority membership if the the chapter house and you do not live in it. Even sorority chapters with houses have members living outside the house. And what about the scores of chapters without houses? Do you think that all of those members have crappy experiences simply because they don't live in, or don't even have the option of living in, a sorority house? Not every likes living with a lot of people, so that experience and preference will vary as well.
Now stop obsessing about something you cannot control.
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Thank you, that was on topic and helpful. I know I can't control it. I just wanted to see if the same experience can be had. I know freshman start off that way, but they have more years to bond with others and that was my concern. It wasn't common sense to me and a few others worried about the same thing because people say that when you live with people it forms a better bond, which is why people in clubs aren't usually that close because they only see each other a couple times out of the week. Also there are so many girls in certain sororities I was worried they couldn't possibly bond with everyone, especially if they aren't living with them because it makes it easier if they lived together I would think