[twinstars]

I agree with what everyone else has said. Whoever told you that is just stupid and obviously doesn't know much at all about the ways a sorority makes its selections during rush. Whether or not a rushee gets invited back, or whether or not they get a bid, is not a reflection of what a few individuals think of you. It's sort of a composite of the opinions of the whole group. One or more girls in the house could totally love you, but you'd be cut because the rest of their sisters liked other rushees better. It doesn't mean that your friends aren't your friends anymore, or that they don't think you're cool enough to get a bid at their house. From personal experience, I know there are certainly younger girls who were cut from my sorority who I sincerely respected and liked... it's just that at the end of the day, my sisters liked other girls even more. Even though I know it's impossible, no girl should take rush week and whatever goes down personally. Once you're on the inside (in a house) and see how these decisions are really made, you'll totally understand how flaky and impersonal the process can be.