it's really hard for me, because i didn't go through formal recruitment... on the one hand, i didn't get to learn about each of the other three sororities straight from the source necessarily like the women that went through, but on the other hand, i was able to form alot of my opinions through experience that wasn't necessarily based on the emotion of the moment (not that i'm saying that is a bad thing necessarily either!) i guess waht i'm saying is that my feelings for adpi grew a little more slowly than that "rush" that the women who went through formal felt. any-ways
although the other sororities on my campus are full of amazing women, and i'm sure that i would have been proud to be a part of any of them if things were different, i know that i am completely happy where i am and can't
even imagine myself anywhere else...