View Single Post
  #1  
Old 07-25-2012, 05:58 PM
FleurGirl FleurGirl is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 403
Quote:
Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby View Post
Or, alternatively, she feels that she doesn't want to join an organization that will judge her so much on her looks, and feels that putting in more effort now than she would as a pledge is counterproductive for everyone involved.
That's sort of like saying you don't feel like looking for nice clothes for your job interview, because you don't want them to hire you based on your looks. However, in both scenarios you have a very brief period to make a good impression, and someone who looks like they've invested some energy into making themselves presentable will win out every time. It's more about putting your best foot forward and showing off your best self than being judged solely on appearance.
__________________
()---,,
Nobody knows how happy I am!
Reply With Quote