right on blaire, and co. ... obviously, thetaphigirl, as you said, your friend is happy with her sorority, which is important, but you can never have too many friends... those women in other orgs will add to her experience as well as possibly becoming some of her close friends!if they are going out of their way to say hi, they mus t recognize what a great person she is, and who wouldn't want a friend like that!? remember the saying no matter the letter, we're all greek together? the panhellenic spirit will only help you not hurt, but it's more than just that, it's wanting to diversify your own friendships and reach past what i've seen become (unfortunately) what some ladies see as the unbreakable boundaries of their orgs... it's healthy to have friends outside of your sorority, they help you realize that there is a bigger picture out there, and your org is one (meaningful) part of it. hope this mad e sense, it's been a long day at work
good luck to your friend!