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Originally Posted by FleurGirl
Not to pry, but if she doesn't even want to put in the effort to find clothes for recruitment, does she REALLY want to go through, or is she being pressured into trying it? If she actually does want to be in a sorority, she needs a major reality check. Recruitment requires some effort put in, as does sorority life in general. Those recruitment skits don't appear out of thin air, greek week doesn't win itself, and initiation doesn't just happen! If she's not willing to put in the time, does she really want to be there?
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Or, alternatively, she feels that she doesn't want to join an organization that will judge her so much on her looks, and feels that putting in more effort now than she would as a pledge is counterproductive for everyone involved.