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Build her confidence up by making sure she has a very flattering wardrobe, a great hairstyle, manicure, etc. Help her with conversation practice. Help her be confident...don't pass any bad mojo on to her. If you think it's going to be more stressful for you than for her, don't project your pessimism. Be positive! Be excited! Make it fun! If you focus on the weight, she will too, and that will show.
The chapter officer I advise is probably 50 lbs. overweight, but no one cares. She always looks great, has a very high GPA, is extremely responsible, friendly, polite, etc.
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