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Who is this "everyone" you speak of?
PNMs all wear black at many schools. At these schools, someone in a different color will stick out like a sore thumb in a not good way and this may also make the PNM feel uncomfortable. I have seen many threads here that say a PNM should wear a different color to prefs to stand out, but honestly this advice frequently seems to be written by women who were not at these very competitive schools. As someone who has extensive experience as both a PNM and adviser at these types of schools, I would advise you to wear black if that's the traditional attire for preference round at your school unless you are someone with an abundance of confidence.
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