Yes they r still together.  Although he says that nothing is going on anymore, so much trust is gone and so much has happened, the wife doesn't trust at all.  She is convinced that to build trust back, u have to give your all and believe in the other person, but for fear of losing her mind, she is very afraid of doing so.  In the beginning of all of this, he suggested counseling  (seperate then together) and the wife went for 3-4 mths for her sessions.....he went twice.  Now that the wind has blown over (so 2 speak)  he claims 2 b a changed person and realizes the error in his ways.  He says that the whole ordeal was a big mistake and is looking forward to a house and  positive things like that.
MEN.......CAN SEX CONTROL YOUR ORGANS 2 THE POINT OF RUINING EVERYTHING?.....TALK 2 ME!!!!!  ALSO, COULD SOMETHING LIKE THIS BE CONSIDERED A MISTAKE??!!