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					Originally Posted by 28StGreek  Not saying this is the case, but sometimes the reason can be as simple, harsh and judgmental, as appearance. Especially if its a small clique-y campus? And perhaps I am totally reading between the lines the wrong way, but the OP seemed to think it necessary for whatever reason to make comments about her own appearance.
 C'est la vie.
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 I doubt it. In my experience, even the plainest PNM can usually find a place if she has good grades, good extracurriculars, and a decent personality.  Not all sorority women are beauty queens.
The "not upholding the values and morals of sisterhood" sounds more serious.