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GreekorGeek,
Sorry, I don't think i was very clear. I can assure you I'm not a troll.
My former roommate lived in my dorm. We didn't live in traditional dorms. We lived in fully furnished on campus apartments. We just call them dorms. So she was my roommate, or "suite" mate as some people call it. We lived in a 3 bedroom, 2 bath apartment on campus.
The Panhellenic President at my school offered to write me a letter of rec for recruitment, I don't know the specific rules so perhaps it is for one sorority. I'm just going from what I was told. When she asked me if I would be interested in rushing again, she offered. When she found out about the same thing I did with my former roommate (she did digging because she heard I received a bid from the sorority but turned it down) she could not officially confirm or deny if we knew the same thing, but it's very likely that the XYZ member was telling the truth about writing the letter. I do not know who XYZ wrote the letter to, but was told that it was above her head when my friend who is the pres tried to get me a bid and said it was "politics" and that I didn't do anything wrong, it was just someone being stubborn and holding a grudge.
I don't think I'm banned from all the sororities, but it is like a scarlet letter on my application.
Member from XYZ wrote a letter to someone in the Greek system two years ago. Other girls in XYZ told the XYZ president I should join. XYZ President talked to my former roommate/suitemate. Roomie told XYZ Pres that she will not withdraw her letter and that if I am offered a bid, she will drop. XYZ Sorority sister of XYZ roomie was present during this conversation.
Sorry for any confusion, hope this cleared things up. I have nothing to hide or lie about, I was just royally screwed over. Or at least that's how it feels :/
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