Both of you brought up very good points, so thank you!
I think I have a great personality. People always tell me that I should be a comedian and that I'm really smart/they want to study with me, etc. I go to parties and I can let loose (not too loose, I pride myself on keeping things classy). I'm always myself. That's the best and most frequent compliment I receive. A lot of my friends tell me that they wish they were as comfortable with themselves as I am with myself. I could go on and list a bunch of traits that I think make me a desirable candidate, but I think I'm a little bias! I acknowledge I have flaws though. Everyone does.
DubaiSis: To answer your questions..
Things that have changed: I've met more members who do seem to like hanging out with me. We have fun and make plans regularly. My GPA went from a 3.2 to a 3.7, I did not have any letters of rec before, my campus had pledged seniors (so i guess there's some hope!) And these past couple of years being in college I've changed as a person. I started working on myself (excercising, for example) I set goals and I achieve them (4.0 semester GPA), and I've been improving myself so I can be the me I want to be. I don't "need" the Greek system, but I like everything that it stands for and I think that I can contribute just as many positive things to the Greek Community as it can contribute to me. I want to get involved in philanthropic causes, earn leadership positions, and empower women to take control of their lives/love themselves. We all have that one friend who can't function with out the love of a guy. Well I can, and I want female friends who can do the same. Sisters before misters, always. (No pun intended!) My sister made some amazing friends in her sorority and I'm hoping to do the same.
KSUViolet06:
I found out that she wrote the letter through mutual friends because she was talking about. It was later confirmed by my friend in her sorority who was present during a conversation my former roommate had with her sorority's president. She did not want to withdraw her complaint. I think I answered your other questions above
And thank you for that last bit, I didn't really think of that but you make a very go