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Other than this one chapter, what about you has changed that would give the others a reason to pledge you? Is this a campus that makes a habit of pledging juniors? Whether or not your weight will be a concern is beyond what any of us can say.
But the biggest thing is I think you need to sit down with yourself and really think about how you are perceived by others, not by just this one girl who was so mean. You have the credentials that would make you eligible; do the sorority women LIKE you or merely tolerate you? These are tough questions to ask yourself and tougher to get honest answers about. If you want to give it one last shot, go for it. And then it's time to let it go and find other activities to fill up the blank spaces in your life. Good luck with whatever you choose to do next.
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"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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