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OP:
As others have said, NEVER think you're "above" a certain chapter/s. I made that mistake when I rushed years ago and it bit me on the ass. I ended up bidless - twice.
It's unrealistic to go through rush thinking "Oooh, if I just get into XYZ my miserable life will change dramatically and I'll suddenly have dates and friends and parties galore to go to." WRONG. You can't fit a square peg in a round hole. Sisterhood is sisterhood, no matter what the reputation is of any given group - unfounded or not. It's hard enough rushing a 2nd time, and if you're not open to ALL possibilities I fear you're just setting yourself up for disappointment.
Best of luck.
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Alpha Phi
"Union hand in hand"
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