[sigmagirl2000]

So really, I should have looked prior to answering - my bad. You've already asked the same questions with the same background information and gotten similar responses to what I said above. Nothing has changed since the last time you asked and got many useful responses. I defer to the wiser ladies of greek chat who already thoroughly answered you. I'm glad you have such an interest in going greek. Talk to members on your campus, they'll have a better idea of reality for that particular campus than anyone on here.