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Originally Posted by irishpipes
I just got a generic request from our local alumnae Panhellenic to write a rec (I'm the rec chair). The pnm wrote an email stating she'll be a sophomore, rushed at this very competitive school as a freshman, but dropped out of rush. She goes on to list which sororities she is interested in - mine not being one of them. (but all chapters she listed are very desirable.). For those of you ho write a lot of recs, how would you handle this? My inclination is to not lift a finger to help her, and to no rec her so my chapter doesn't waste an invite on her.
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Wow!
This whole "everybody gets a rec" deal kind of bugs me to begin with so I am probably not the best to respond. I feel strongly that the process of recommending someone for membership is a privilege I have been given and not a mandate. That explanation may sound like i am splitting hairs but I do believe that not everyone gets a rec. I say, no.
