[Future_Sister]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I mean, go through if you want, but I wouldn't be overly optimistic unless you are CLOSE friends with many people in one of what I'll call the two "remaining" sororities (let's call them A and B). You have rejected an offer of membership from Sorority C, and Sorority D, while they invited you to pref when you were ineligible, didn't feel the need to invite you back the next spring. As a member of a group who did a LOT of COB, when you don't invite people back in formal rush after they've been to your COB parties, well, that's just not good at all.

And since this is COB, every sorority will be taking a different amount of members. There is no quota. If A and B are the two most popular groups, they will have the smallest amount of spots.

I'm sorry this is so doom and gloom, but it is what it is. It would be different if you were at a large school with 10+ sororities.

Thanks for the input on the house that pref'd but then didn't invite me back, that was something I needed to know!