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Originally Posted by das343
Such horse****. Who are they to say I'll fit in?
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The active members of the chapter, just like the active members of the chapter you currently belong to got to decide whether you'd fit in with them or not. Ditto any other chapters that offered you bids.
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If each one of those fraternities thought I could fit in with their fraternity, then I don't see why I can't fit in with the FIJI at my new school.
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Maybe you will fit in with them, or maybe you won't. But it's their call. And if they say "no," you'll still be a FIJI and still be their brother -- you just won't be a member of their chapter.
It's funny, though, how you keep talking about what brotherhood is about, but when it's suggested you ask how you could start helping and volunteering with the chapter now, you see that as being about wasting your summer and "proving" yourself instead of being about acting like the brother you claim to be. And by funny, I mean sad.