Swamp Thing,
I completely respect your opinion, as it is not uncommon among your gender. I don't feel that I was being callus. I gave an extreme situation to prove a point. I honestly don't think a man with at least half a brain, (I'm sure that you have a full one
), would pass up the woman of his dreams over sex. And, I also don't think that you would deal with someone that you absolutely can't stand just because she was givin' it up.
I'm just trying to say that it can be done and it can probably be done by you. I don't think that having a non-sexual relationship is settling for less. To me, it's more like waiting for the best.