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Originally posted by pbpck
Let me get this straight. A member of your exec pleasantly banned her from any of your fraternity events and she feels comfortable enough to send a mass email to your list serve?
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Well just like all officers he handled the situation with great delicacy and I don’t think she truly grasps the extent of the situation.
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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
I understand that you're upset with this girl, but have you tried to talk to her about the problem?
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Absolutely not, I don’t think I could conduct a rational conversation with her and the last thing I am looking for is a yelling match.
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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
Are you positively sure that what you heard is exactly correct?
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Yes
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Originally posted by shadokat
OK, here's a question...when this girl besmirched your good name Kevlar, what did your brothers do about it before you walked in on it?
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They really had no opportunity to react since I confronted her before she even finished.
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Originally posted by shadokat
And what happens if your brothers want to go to her party?
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I would never tell my brothers what to do out of selfishness. At this point it is a personal issue and does not affect fraternity business so I would feel out of place to put them in that position.
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Originally posted by maggieaxid
Kevlar, are you the only one with a problem with this girl, or is it most of your brothers?
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No I am not the only one with the problem just one of a select few that have voiced opinions on the matter.
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Originally posted by maggieaxid
Also, if most people have a problem with her, then why was she there in the first place?
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Not everyone has a problem with her. We paired up with their sorority for an event during spring semester and in my opinion they have reached a feeling of entitlement when it comes to our functions. I don’t mean to make that sound as if their not welcome but I feel that some of their behavior is done only in the context that they feel they can get away with it.