[DubaiSis]

The closest thing you're going to get to the bonds of brotherhood, for lack of a better phrase, is to get involved with an organization that is important to you, make friends, take leadership roles and be the friend you want in others. That doesn't have to have Greek letters or secret rituals involved. As 33girl said, that ship has sailed, and wouldn't necessarily have the pay-off anyway. But if you joined, say, the Jaycees, Lions, Rotary, etc., over time you would make some of those connections that can help you socially and professionally. And don't think it doesn't give you the instant pay off fraternity membership would. Fraternity membership is NO instant pay off. If you know a guy who hires guys only because they're TKEs, that is an anomaly of astronomical proportions.