I think the preacher should have saved his " hell, fire, and brimstone" sermon for next Sunday's service and not a funeral! Granted, I don't think he should preside over the funeral telling bold faced lies about the deceased (because I'm sure his family would have known otherwise) but still, just leave it at a few kind words and step.
Ok, now the family....

DAMN, DAMN, DAMN !!!!!!!!!!!
throws punchbowl on the floor
Their actions are deplorable!

If you're mad, write the church elders, missionary board, the bishop, etc., but to go around like thugs and beat this man up..............