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I obviously didn't mean that cross dressing thing literally. Sorry if that really offended anyone.
I wasn't going to talk about this but here goes.....There was a situation among some friends of mine that was similar to this. My boyfriend was in XYZ fraternity. His best friend was very interested in a girl who wasn't equally intersted in him. Some very dramatic things happened between the two of them that the guy felt were irreconcilable. Ultimately she was banned from any events and she tried this throw a party and try to make everyone on my side tactic. Her doing so caused so many problems for her. It ultimately made her look and feel stupid around the guys. That is because the guy involved had such strong feelings as Kevlar seems to. I just think it would be better if she left things alone for a while. He seems to have made it clear to her that she is causing a problem.
I guess I assumed that she is like the girl that I know. I just don't think that a person should do anything to interfere with a groups brother or sisterhood. Sometimes it is better to just walk away for a while out of respect for the people associated and let things cool off. Just my opinion.
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