I am sorry to hear that this situation is happening to you. There are a few guys on my campus that make a hobby out of "banning" their ex-girlfriends and their repective sororities from the fraternity's events. It makes me so mad because their are often girls who deserve to be banned and the impact is lost on the guys who are just throwing a fit.
I am sure that this girl will be sadly mistaken if she is trying to have this power struggle for your brothers loyalty. I hope that she will play herself out. Petty people usually get bored and find someone else to bother. When fall begins be sure to talk to your exec again and make it very clear that you don't want to see this person around. I am sure that your brothers will have enough respect for you to ensure that she isn't their.
Maybe you should suggest that she begin to cross dress and try to become a pledge since she is so interested in your fraternity. ;-)
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