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Originally Posted by melindawarren
If she doesn't even know for sure if she signed a pref card, do you really think she was a NM for a few weeks?
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Originally Posted by GabrielleNM
I rushed my freshman year of college and got into a sorority. At that time, I really wasn't into the party scene or even greek life in general.
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Admittedly, the few weeks isn't clear. But, she did state in her title that she signed a pref card and then above she indicates that she got in.
My point was more to clarify that it would be much wider known than just by the older actives of the group that she dropped, as had been indicated earlier in the thread. Even if she decided on Bid Day that it wasn't for her, there are still going to be women on her campus who know. Word will spread fast as those few share that with their own chapters, their close friends in other chapters, etc.
I didn't want the OP to falsely believe that she could slide through recruitment this year without some/many/all chapters aware of her story. It serves her much better to be prepared to answer the inevitable questions.