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Originally Posted by fool
Hey guys im a social cripple, Im going to Uc Boulder this fall and I'm seriously debating joining a frat. Ive met with people from ZBT and they were really cool but I have a few questions.
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- I went to a ZBT party and I felt lost, the downstairs was just people grinding and upstairs were just people I never knew, I just walked around aimlessly and felt out of place.
`Question 1: If I join a frat will these parties feel more easy to be around?
Probably yes because the guys will be your friends.
- im a social cripple, does this matter?
It's going to make getting offered a bid much harder. But hey, who knows? It should help you get over some of it by seeing others behave appropriately for the situation.
- Are all girls the same?
No. Don't be retarded. Is your mother like the women you described?
- Does being a social cripple help?
- I do like partying but will the partying/pledging get in the way of my academic life? Will my social retardation help?
Statistics say the semester you join a fraternity your grades are affected somewhat. You have to work harder to maintain good grades. You are in college for your education first and foremost, and you are allowed to say no to ridiculous behavior.
- Im a huge faggot, help me.
You're going to need to work on your self-esteem if you're going to get anywhere in life