For those sisters/brothers who draw a blank on specific questions or are uncomfortable with the whole conversation thing, I always tell them to fall back on: Tell me about. . . . .
*your move-in experience
*living on a floor with 25 (number?) other people
*managing your total freedom for the first time
*your current class schedule
*your most challenging (toughest) class
*your parents' advice/reactions when they moved you in
*your reasons for wanting to become Greek
*your family
*your last summer (following h.s. graduation)
*your high school experience
*etc., etc., etc.,
This works well for guys, especially thoe who tend to get tongue-tied and ask every question that requires a YES, NO, or SINGLE WORD answer.
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