I think everyone above is probably correct -- sounds like you guys weren't actually initiated into the fraternity.
But we didn't go through the ceremony with you, so anything we say is guessing at best.
If you want to be Greek, check with NIC or another fraternity you're more comfortable with. Get a real answer, not a guess.
In Delt, we had a colony that didn't reach necessary numbers in the amount of time allowed. After three or four years, the colony members who stuck it out were initiated as alums at one of our division conferences. It wasn't as good for them as receiving a charter, but at least their hard work was rewarded with membership.
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The above is the opinion of the poster which may or may not be based in known facts and does not necessarily reflect the views of Delta Tau Delta or Greek Chat -- but it might.
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