"The first has absolutely everything that you want, need, and desire in a woman, but she is not willing or ready to have sex with you. "
If she does not want a monogomous, sexually active relationship that leads toward marriage, then she doesn't have
everything I desire and need in a Woman .
I have many female platonic friends... and we all like people who we have fun with / vibe with / etc. Every male - female relationship doesn't have to lead toward matrimony. As stated in an earlier post, I'd continue the platonic friendship (y'all know there is also a thing called the 'special friendship' ie: booty buddy {keeping it real LOL}) and look elsewhere for the lady who fits the criteria I want for a relationship.
(note: All these things are open to change... If a time comes when my desires are to become celebate.. or that my platonic friend feels that she wants to become intimate, then we could always reevaluate our feelings for each other and if we want to try kickin' it as an item.. )