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DO NOT TELL THEM YOU SAW IT.
Otherwise, it's a truly disappointing situation that you're in and I feel for you. I'm not one of those guys that's going to say OMG DON'T PLEDGE THEY ARE HAAAAZZZZEERRRSSSSS. But neither could I advocate that you pursue a fraternity that you pretty much know for sure doesn't share your values.
If you were my son, and it's this fraternity or no fraternity, I'd probably tell you to go through the rush process, see if you actually get picked, and perhaps start the process. You can always drop if it's not your thing or if your morals are compromised.
This may not be the BEST advice, but it's the advice I have.
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