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Originally Posted by rutrush
basically my friends in the frat messed with him (they were in the same pledge class) and sometimes i did too. Nothing major, changed a facebook status once in a while but he'd get me back too. Thought it was in good fun but he's apparently the type to hold a grudge so he told me he'd put me on the blacklist. I heard he's on our IFC rush, but i have no clue what that is. However, I have alot of friends within the frat and two on the board to decide if i get a bid or not (they told me yes already).
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Hopefully it will work out for you. However, just having two friends on the board does not guarantee you a bid. They aren't the only ones who get to decide and the member you pissed off may have more friends on the board than you.
Friendly advice: All of us have heard pnms say, "I've got friends in ABC. I know I'll get in." Having friends in ABC, whether it's a fraternity or sorority, is no guarantee.
I would also clear the air with the guy. In a sincere, not butt kissing way, I'd tell him that I was sorry, didn't mean any harm, and truly apologize for messing with him.
Good luck.